This is a response to Rachel Held Evans’ request for men to write about the women, femininity and the Church.

When
I became a stay-at-home father several years ago, I slowly realized
that all the theology I had studied in seminary, if I were honest,
didn’t connect with my new reality of diapers, spit-up and frozen breast
milk.

The liberation theology, the ontology, the epistemology —
all the ologies of ologies — rarely intersected with how I lived my
life.