And then there’s Dad, sent off
at twelve to boarding school
where he learned the rudiments
of Lutheran theology and how
to do his own laundry and how
to smoke a pack a day, a thing
so well learned that it became
a 57 year old habit. Do the math
and you’ll know how short he
lived, how long he blew smoke
rings for me and my siblings
as he wrote his sermons, graded