The day I was confirmed, you turned to me,
sang out, while I stared straight ahead
through the sudden Wisconsin blizzard,
trying to keep our car on course toward home,
“Maybe this is why we got together.”
I thought that was too much hindsight, foresight.
Now, ten months into your death, our life
together winds and unwinds, spiraling,
snowdrifting, melting, freezing to melt again.