Forgive and forget? (Genesis 45:1-15)

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“Forgiveness is hard.” I often utter this truism to others, always in the hope that someone somewhere will disagree and offer some profound advice for me, as I seem to struggle particularly with this most important of virtues. No luck so far. All I usually get back are nodding heads and knowing sighs. Yes, true forgiveness is hard—for both the forgiver and the forgiven.