Born Again AgainBecause I could not stop for death by Carol Howard Merritt December 27, 2014ShareShare on TwitterShare on FacebookEmail to a friendPrint I sat down with a friend, and he told me about his holiday. He was about 35 years older than I was and his Christmas had been punctuated by the deaths of classmates, men and women he had been close to since childhood. “Does it get any easier?” I asked. “What?”