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It isn’t easy to lower the temperature of our political discourse. But there are people working to help us have better conversations.

God, like an attuned parent, hears not just the words we say but also the hidden parts of our hearts.

We asked 11 writers to tell us about a book that opens up space for adults and children to discuss important questions.

Life in America has been changed by gun culture.

“My workshops are not designed to create poets. I am using poetry as a catalyst.”

Gregory Ellison II's book evokes the sort of honest conversations he has been convening.

The idea is disarmingly simple: all you need is a dinner table.

Carolyn Helsel's guidebook is insightful, sensitive, and deeply practical.

How do we retool after we speak irreverently or caustically?

One Sunday, I invited people to talk to us pastors about whatever troubled them. So after the service, I had no one to blame but myself.

I sometimes envy my colleagues whose denominations have already fought this issue out, voted and moved on. We Disciples don't work that way.

On Sunday I visited a church that's majority white but not overwhelmingly so. After worship, I stuck around for a planned conversation about Trayvon Martin and George Zimmerman. Here the demographics were flipped: a slight majority of African Americans.

But the white folks did their share of the talking.

Earlier this year, the Century published a piece by an environmental scientist on just how radical the current shift in CO2 levels are—from the perspective of 50 million years. As I was working with that scientist, Lee Vierling, on the piece, we struggled to find a language that he and I and readers of the Century could share.

He wanted something that was fluid and scientifically absolutely accurate. He also wanted to be certain that he was not using scare tactics.

I knew I had to talk to him. This longtime church elder would soon see my newsletter article, and he wasn't going to like it.

The Chick-fil-A hullaballoo is a sad commentary on our society. It is a proxy war for the civil discourse we’re unable or unwilling to have over the issues that deeply divide us.

I'm not opposed to peaceful demonstrations; I've participated in some myself over the years. But remember Newton's third law of motion: for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. That’s what we've seen here.

In a recent interview with the Century, Michelle Alexander, the civil rights lawyer and author of The New Jim Crow, wonders about the stigma in many churches attached to people who have been recently released from prisons. “The deep irony,” she says,” is that the very folks who ought to be the most sensitive to the demonization of the ‘despised,’ the prisoners, have been complicit and silent.”

But the kinds of conversations that Alexander’s book seems to demand are very difficult to have--in churches and outside them.

North Carolina voters go to the polls today, and the race that will make all the headlines doesn’t have a candidate. On the ballot is a constitutional amendment defining marriage between one man and one woman as the only legal domestic union recognized by the state.

I’m against the amendment--a popular view here in Greensboro. The city council passed a resolution opposing it. Light blue “Vote Against” yard signs dot the neighborhood around our church.

Across the state, opinions are more varied.