What can help M.?

June 7, 2011

In recent columns, Nicolas Kristof has taken up
the cause of a girl in India, the daughter of a prostitute, whom he refers to
only as "M." M. is ten years old. Thanks to an organization called
New Light, she was attending school in Calcutta.

But recently, the girl's family suddenly withdrew her from
school and bought a train ticket for her to return to the country, where
Kristof believes they intend to sell her to a sex trafficker far from the
spotlight of international scrutiny. In one scene Kristof describes, he,
actress America Ferrera and the founder of New Light gather in the family's
small hut and beg them--unsucessfully--to change their minds.

Their failure struck me powerfully, and it seemed to strike
Kristof as well. He has been working
on this issue for more than a decade, and he knows well the dynamics of
economics, shame and complex traditions that he is confronting. Kristof's
platform at the New York Times shines
an international spotlight on M.'s fragile situation. Add to this a
hardworking, on-the-ground NGO and the power of Hollywood. If this cannot save
this child, what can?

Sex-trafficking is an intractable problem, and clearly this
family is calculating its future in terms that are painful--if not
inscrutable--to those of us watching from the other side of the world. What
more, I wonder, can be done?


There's got to be a better way.

I wonder why we'd think an American political columnist and actress would have any clout with a rural Indian family. The founder of New Light might have some clout. But I strongly suspect the voices given most weight in this  Indian village are those of family and local religious leaders. Obviously, there are cultural and, I'd assume, economic reasons for this family to sell its young daughter to sex traders. It's only when there are alternative voices and alternative choices in India's villages--and so many other villages and cities around the world--that families will move away from trafficking their daughters. We think of ourselves more highly than we ought when we think powerful American voices have any power outside of very limited contexts. May God watch over, protect and bless this girl and deal swiftly with those who would harm her.