Century Marks

Century Marks

Marital advantage?

Opponents of same-sex marriage argue that it will lead to a further weakening of the institution of marriage. But some research shows that there are strengths in same-sex marriage from which heterosexual couples could learn. Same-sex couples tend to be happier and have less conflict, and they are more likely to share equally in household chores and childrearing. Because they don’t have fixed gender roles to follow, same-sex couples have to do more negotiating to make the relationship work. “If a genderless marriage is a marriage in which the wife is not automatically expected to be responsible for school forms and child care and dinner preparation and birthday parties and midnight feedings and holiday shopping, I think it’s fair to say that many heterosexual women would cry ‘Bring it on!’” says Liza Mundy (Atlantic, June).

Earn to give

Jason Trigg, a recent MIT graduate in computer science, may represent a new breed in his generation. He’s taken a job at a Wall Street hedge fund company to make as much money as he can—so he can give away as much as he can. His favorite charity is the Against Malaria Foundation, which estimates that a $2,500 donation can save one life. Trigg, who lives with three roommates, figures he can do more by contributing to good causes than by actually working in them. Rather than going on a mission trip to dig wells in Africa, he can contribute funds to have more wells dug. Trigg attributes his career choice to philosopher Peter Singer, who regards earning-to-give as the most ethical career choice (Wonkblog, washingtonpost.com, May 31).

Givers beware

Crooks are scamming people out of money by impersonating well-known religious leaders on Facebook and making appeals for money. United Methodist pastor Adam Hamilton of Kansas City, who leads the largest Methodist congregation in the United States, has been one of the victims of these scammers. “Somebody is using my pictures and my name in order to take advantage of other people and to hurt them, and that really makes me mad,” Hamilton said in a sermon titled “Evil in the Name of God.” Anyone can pretend to be someone else on Facebook and as soon as a phony page is taken down, another can be put back up (Kansas City Star, May 11).

Take the bus

Last month Nuns on the Bus kicked off a national tour aimed at giving a faith-based push to immigration reform legislation that’s now hanging in the balance in Congress. The nuns hope to replicate their much publicized tour last summer, when the sisters traveled 2,700 miles through nine states to protest Republican budget plans. This year they plan to cover 6,500 miles, stopping in 15 states, especially in communities with large Latino populations (RNS).

Irresistible

Help, Mom! There Are Arminians Under My Bed! by the Rev. J. D. Hall is a picture book intended to teach children the Calvinist doctrine of sovereign grace. A reviewer at Amazon by the name of B. Ditto says facetiously: “We bought this for our three boys, Beza, Calvin, and Van Till! . . . The joy they got out of this book made me almost as happy as when little Calvin started quoting the Institutes, little Van Till argued for the existence of God by assuming He existed, and little Beza threw rocks at that Methodist kid in his class! I know that God has predestined them to great things!!!” (amazon.com).