What's for dinner? According to Lisa Miller, our food
choices have become "the definitive marker" of our social status. In her Newsweek cover story, three families from
Brooklyn are pictured at their dinner tables. The first family, two adults and
two children, are eating meatballs, buckwheat pasta and organic romaine
lettuce. Mom selects locally grown and organic items and says that she spends "hours
each day thinking about, shopping for, and preparing" food. She believes that
she is contributing to the cause of greater health and the survival of the
planet. This family spends approximately 20 percent of its income, or $1,000
per month, on food.  

A second family of two kids and a single mom is shown
with a dinner of pasta with pesto and chicken breast. They spend $100 a week on
food; the mom's income is a $13-an-hour catering job. Fresh fruits and
vegetables are too expensive, the mom says, and they're not fresh in the
groceries where she shops. She worries about not having enough to eat.

The third family, an adult son and his mom, are eating
turkey salisbury steak with cheese, potatoes and green beans. Occasionally they
feed a niece or nephew who comes by. They are on fixed incomes, and they spend
$75 a week on food. The author adds that the son makes a pot of beans and rice
for the food pantry every week.

Fifty million Americans--17 percent--are "food insecure,"
meaning that they sometimes run out of money to buy food, or run out of food
before they can get more money. The last three years have brought a 58 percent
increase in the number of Americans who are on food stamps.

What are the rest of us, the other 83 percent, having for
dinner? Does it matter if some of us are infatuated with how and what we eat? Is
it okay to be perfectionists and insist on the highest standards and variety
when we shop? If we want to be sensitive to issues of food injustice, how do we
check ourselves on our habits and possible excesses, and what do we use as
measuring sticks?

Perhaps the percentage of income spent on food is one
such measuring stick. The average American spends 13 percent, including
restaurants and takeout. Is this reasonable? (Should we be paying more to be
more realistic about the cost of supporting ethical farmers, or less so that we
can support a local food pantry?) And what about time? Is there a limit to the
time we should spend on dreaming, shopping, preparing and eating food? After
all, the ritual of sharing well-prepared food around a table is rich and
biblical. Maybe the test is whether we can do this but also eat simply, even
frugally, at other times, and yes, with guests.

Maybe a ratio of us
to others would help. For every
dollar and/or hour we spend on food, do we spend at least that amount of money
and time in helping others gain access to food, and to more healthful food?

Debra Bendis

The Century contributing editor worked at the magazine from 1994 to 2017. She has degrees from North Central College and Northwestern University.

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