Responding effectively to criticism in ministry has been one of my growing edges for many years. On a good day, when Iâ€™m well rested, spiritually grounded and in touch with my inner warrior woman, and the planets are properly aligned, I handle criticism just fine. But on my bad days, Iâ€™m pretty lousy about staying in my own skin when someone comes at me with a criticism, especially about my preaching.
In my head I know that feedback from others can contribute to my own growth. But what happens in my body is another thing altogether. My arms start to tingle and my breathing quickens, something fluttery starts to happen in my stomach and my vocal chords constrict, making my speech sound all wobbly. I instinctively take a step backward or cross my arms over my middle.