"I have a philosophy about life,â€ť a friend said recently. â€śThe world would be a much better place if people took a moment to let people know about the positive impact they have had on othersâ€™ lives. Too much time is spent on negativity. The good in people simply isnâ€™t recognized; too often it is taken for granted.â€ť
At the time, we were talking about the importance of thanking people whoâ€™d done a good job or had made a difference in our lives. I remembered two occasions, among others, when I felt glad that Iâ€™d expressed gratitude. In one case, a person who had rotated off the presidency of a service organization to which I belonged was overwhelmed by my thank-you note. The other case involved a coach whom I thanked because years before he had taken time to encourage me, a kid utterly inept at sports. Coincidentally, both these people died shortly thereafter. What if Iâ€™d not taken the time to speak positively?