Set a straight course and keep to it, and do not be dismayed in the face of adversity. (Ecclesiasticus 2:2, The Apocrypha, Revised English Bible)
After a child has been baptized in the traditions and liturgies of the Greek Orthodox Church—and by “child” I don’t mean a squalling seven-year-old but a real infant, literally still damp—the minister or priest or bishop takes his very large pectoral cross—twice the size of mine—and forcefully strikes the little child on its breast, so hard that it leaves a mark, and so hard that it hurts the child and the child screams. In the West, we give the child roses. What is the difference here?