As a child, Deirdre Sullivan’s parents took her and her siblings to funerals. “Always go to the funeral,” her father would say. She heard him also saying: do the right thing, even when you don’t feel like it; it might inconvenience you, but it could mean the world to someone else. This message came back to her after her father died and his funeral was held in the middle of the workweek. “The most human, powerful and humbling thing I’ve ever seen was a church at 3:00 on a Wednesday full of inconvenienced people who believe in going to the funeral,” she said (NPR).