When Lu Lobello returned from duty in Iraq, he was haunted by the memory of one particular incident. Early in the takeover of Baghdad, his marine unit had shot up a suspicious car that turned out to contain civilians, the Kachadoorian family. Only the mother and a daughter survived; all the men were killed. Lobello was discharged from the marines due to actions related to his suffering from posttraumatic stress disorder. He eventually researched what happened to the survivors in the Kachadoorian family. They had moved to California and lived not far from Lobello. Through a reporter who had written about the Kachadoorians, a meeting was arranged. The conversation was awkward, but the mother and daughter, both Arminian Christians, told Lobello that they forgave him and welcomed him as a son and brother (New Yorker, October 29).